Posted by: Aya Thorgren | July 21, 2017

Love is being there

This woman just said it straight out, to truly love you must be there physically, emotionally and mentally.

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That means if you are there mentally and emotionally but not yet physically, or physically but not mentally or emotionally, or for example not there physically, nor emotionally and only sometimes mentally it will be hard to build a firm foundation out of that and it is just not going to be perfect.

Be aware of the signals you give out which may be confusing. You may think you are looking for love but in reality it is out of a ego driven physical and only sexual need and you are in reality emotionally unavailable and cold so people will react and respond to that and simply leave you alone. Or you want a woman by your side but in reality think they are inferior whores so that is what you subconsciously or consciously pick/ get (immensely carnal super sexy women) and then get irritated about how untrustworthy they are and to confirm your thoughts about women.

Or you see yourself as a old generation intellectual top dog and enjoy intelligent exchange with females with brains but then find them totally unfitting in your sexual ” dark” secret ” dirty” side born out of the older generations absolute fear of sexuality and sort of works on them as prohibited drugs on the youth, the more ” bad” it seems the more they want to do it, thus have sexy women that are only for sexual exchange and emotional support( wife, s and mistresses) and totally neutral ” serious” women for work, all of this to fulfill his varied needs and lack of emotional discipline. And God forbid you have both traits, then they won,t know what to make out of you and let me tell you why; now you could possibly become highly dangerous to someone without discipline. A male chauvinist will never include his woman in his work and glorious power trips thus the relationship is doomed from the beginning, you will live two different lives and not be united, only by the groin, as his eternally grateful sex slave that you depend on for survival. But what these men don,t pick up on is that their promiscuity and nastiness shine way stronger than their words, the expensive car they drive and the eau de cologne and designer suit they wear, in shines through their eyes and makes them everything but noble in spite of respected earthly titles or bloodlines. What they display is more of a play of power, a competition with God in questioning all the creations and questioning the feminine while taking out the beauty, innocence and purity of this place and people and replacing it with inferior values and materially inferior ugly things.

Any distance, whether mental, emotional or physical is obviously contrary to experiencing closeness.

Sometimes our heart want something that seems impossible and we will perceive this inside as some sort of emotional pain but the reality is that it is only our fear that holds us back, because the moment you perceive anything as possible, without a doubt it is and all obstacles are removed in that instant.

If you can terrify people to stay put as a weapon, I would say that is the psychological weapon our societies use the most now, instilling constant fear, worry and doubt which are total sins in the scope of faithfulness. For example we are going full force stopping only specifically nuclear energies and bombs while they are developing hundreds of energy based weapons that are soon going to be tested on something alive and certainly on this planet earth to the detriment of our atmosphere. As they come up have to be illegalized one by one for the next thousand years until humans wake up and realize that this is all an obvious game because it’s the actual killing and the psychological want to kill that should be outlawed or more like be educated into the people so that they are not born into aggressive families that only think about violence but give them a chance to live peace at home first so that it becomes a way of life, not some strange unusual thing they only do in other countries.

Love & Light
Aya

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