Posted by: Aya Thorgren | June 2, 2014

Why its important to prevent abuse

Once its has gone to far people tend to loose their feelings, I assume it is a survival mechanism.

The biggest danger we face is this ; After a human being has been abused for too long, their nervous system may shatter, they can go in two directions, feel overwhelmed or feel nothing. In our society both these psychiatric cases are treated with medicine.

I noticed women have a tendency to feel overwhelmed by one million emotions and men are more likely to become cold. Both these types tend to withdraw from society and chances are  big that they repeat the abuse that they experienced unless treated. Some are sociopaths but will abuse their near when noone is around.

I just read that 1 out of 5 young people have mental disorders, that is a full 20% we are talking about.

An ice cold person will ridicule a sensitive one and will pinpoint how little anyone cares, how little society cares, how un-important they are  and will additionally make fun of their reactions ( any signs of supposed “weakness” like crying etc)

This might make a sensitive person not want to feel emotions anymore, not even good ones. To feel nothing can feel easier than having your heart shatter in pieces. I imagine that is why too many young people take anti depressants.( http://bjp.rcpsych.org/content/196/6/429.long) .

Too many young people live under constant pressure and critics from the World around them but they are only human, humans need kindness, care, love and feeling protected, they need to be accepted for who they are.

I have additionally noticed how difficult it is for the older generations to let the younger ones just be.

If you are not able to love your child they could alternatively become highly dangerous or highly sensitive/ vulnerable in our harsh society, they will have trouble finding people to relate to and they will be more likely to find a partner as ice cold as you are before they find someone compatible. I think it is definitely possible to “connect” with someones sensitive sub -conscious side and then be totally turned off by their cold conscious personality which is like another person altogether.

Let them choose their paths, not yours. its is their life, you as an elder can be a supportive guide but NEVER cast a judgement or force them to do what they do not want. Children are not your personal slaves that you should obessively control, young people are WAY ahead intellectually and in all ways, mentally, physically and genetically, you are most likely not able to grasp their powers. Eminem mentions this is one of his songs.To me he reflects the neurotic thinking of our generation, the wtf, the rage, figuring out the confusing relationship games, the hurt , the sadness covered by not trying to feel or alternatively hiding away, something reflected in the cybernetic world where many prefer a virtual relationship with no touch, that is almost real, but safer.

This might alternatively be a sign that we are coming into a new era where telepathy and feeling from a distance is just as valid as if someone is right there. A time where lies will not exist and trust is by instinct.

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Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.

Timothy 4:12

Love will heal the World.

Love and Light

Aya

 

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